The Perennial Question: Can You Tip Your Mail Carrier?

by Marianna E Perez 10/27/2019

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"Can I tip the mail carrier?" It's a burning question whenever the holiday season approaches.

The short answer is no. Postal employees are bound by an Ethical Conduct code. Within this code, a rule lets carriers take a non-monetary gift worth up to $20. The annual total gift limit from one customer is $50 worth of gifts.

What Gifts Are Off-Limits?

Postal employees may not accept:

  • Cash or checks.  
  • Alcohol.
  • Clothes.
  • Meals.
  • Event tickets.

Gift cards are not a work-around. Anything else that can be used as money is similarly off limits.

What Gifts Will Keep Your Carrier on the Right Side of the Rules?

Postal Service rules on gifts for permit carriers to accept:

  • Hand warmers, mugs, and so forth, worth $20 or less. 
  • Snacks, drinks, and perishable gifts.

More expensive treats would need to be shared with the whole crew of your post office.

In other words, you may tip your individual carrier in trinkets, but not in actual money.

Any Legit Ways Around the No-Tip Rule?

If your mail carrier has been trudging through rain, snow, and blistering heat for years, is tipping really barred? Yes!

So, it's never done? Well, let's just say the official gift limit has been routinely ignored for years, if the New York Times blog is a good indicator. But gifts can get a carrier in trouble. This is something we should all keep in mind.

Now, maybe you know your carrier by name, and are on a friendly basis. Maybe you've shared garden cuttings, helped a stray cat get home, or even worked together. There is nothing in the law that says you cannot offer a gift to a friend. A carrier, in other words, may accept a gift of your choice if you have a personal friendship—but not because of the job, which is what defines a tip.

Check first. If your friend the mail carrier isn't comfortable with an intended gift, skip it.

How Else Can You Meaningfully Show Appreciation?

Make a splash on your carrier's behalf by writing to the higher-ups. Thanking the postal service for your carrier's excellence. You might send a letter to the local postmaster. To go higher up the leadership chain, you could write to the Area Operations VP or the Human Resources VP.  

Your letter can describe how your carrier has helped people in your neighborhood. It can explain why your carrier is the bee's knees. Nothing like positive reinforcement from the public in a personnel file. Plus, because such letter-writing rarely happens, this style of praise really stands out. 

Oh, and be sure to send your letter through the United States Postal Service.

About the Author
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Marianna E Perez

Marianna E. Perez is a Real Estate professional with over 20 years of experience. A lifelong resident of South Florida, she keeps her finger on the pulse of the latest trends and movements in the real estate market. She offers clients top-notch guidance from start to finish, ensuring the entire process is seamless, efficient and rewarding. Prior to entering real estate, Marianna was Senior Vice President of Commercial Real Estate Banking at City National Bank of Florida. She provided strategic leadership facilitating profitable and efficient origination of real estate loans. Marianna was a trusted advisor to clients and to the bank growing a real estate portfolio to over $300 million. She is firmly committed to the philosophy “not quantity, but quality,” which she practices in both her personal and professional life. Marianna is a graduate of FIU where she earned a bachelor’s degree in business management. She is a member of the Miami Association of Realtors, a lifetime board member of the BASF (Builders Association of South Florida), a member of CREW (Commercial Real Estate Women), and ICSC (International Council of Shopping Centers). She is also involved with the Women’s Leadership Council (United Way TNC). In addition, Marianna has received these special industry accolades: Housing Hall of Fame inductee 2017 Builders Association of South Florida, Associate of the Year 2017 Builders Association of South Florida, Florida’s Best Awards Chair 2016 and 2004 Builders Association of South Florida, Vice President 2008 Builders Association of South Florida, President’s Award 2008 and 2003